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Jason told me that I could work from home more.  I almost never did it.  So I told him I would like to do it at least 1 day a week.  He said that was great and more up to the 3 day limit was ok.  So I started doing that, well 1 day a week.  If I had meetings, more than 1 that wasn't as important, I would start doing that. If I had meetings though, I would come in. Well Stephanie started making comments again about people working from home too much and her not knowing when they were coming in or not.  I have my own team calendar to know when people are out or vacations scheduled.  I shared that with Jason so he can have it.  With what Stephanie said, I felt very uncomfortable about working from home now.  She said she watches those people closely.  I know that Brooke was also getting in trouble a lot for working from home or at least Stephanie was upset with her about it (she shared it with Rebecca and Jessica, and Rebecca shared it with me).  So I didn't want to get on that list even more.  so I started cutting back from doing it.
Stephanie wanted me to be added to the InfoSec email group.  so I have a list of when everyone is out and I needed to start putting myself on that as well.  Ok great.  She wanted to know all the time I would be out and working from home.  Ok fine.  So I asked about the rest of my team, she said no, they don't need to be included.  ok. 
Why do I need to know when the rest of them will be out and they are not part of my team? I rarely work with them.  The only one I care about is Jason and he almost never puts his work from home in there or being out at all.  I see his travel is in there but that is it.  I never have a clue when he is going to be here.  He said he tries to work from home on Thursdays and Fridays, sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn't.  I never know when he is going to be in the office.  He makes it sound like he is always here, yeah, not true. some days he leaves early and doesn't even tell anyone.  well, maybe he tells someone but not me.
So I am not part of this email group.  I send it from my own team calendar so I can tell me my team as well as the other team when I am out.  again, I have nothing really to do with them and I am always ready to help when they do need something from me.  still, this is so stressful. It just feels more like another way to watch me vs me being more part of the team.  and if it is me being more part of the team, why not my entire team instead of just me?  that doesn't really make sense. I am trying to not even think about it.